Candlelight vigil honors victims of domestic violence

Published 5:48 pm Friday, October 26, 2018

Roughly a hundred people stood on Lafayette Square in solemn silence on Wednesday night as candles flickered in honor of the victims of domestic violence.

Harmony House Domestic Violence Shelter hosted an interfaith community candlelight vigil on Lafayette Square on Wednesday night. The vigil honored the 96 people from Georgia who died due to domestic violence last year, and provided information on how faith communities can work with victims of domestic violence. One Troup County woman’s death was attributed to domestic violence last year.

“Most people in a domestic violence relationship will turn to their faith community before they call the police, before they call my crisis line,” said Michele Bedingfield, the executive director of Harmony House. “They are going to turn to their preacher for guidance or their faith leader.”

Organizers thanked the people who worked day in and out to respond to those in crisis, including members of the Troup County Domestic Violence Task Force and Harmony House workers, but a special focus was placed on faith leaders.

“Law enforcement, faith community leaders — all of you serve on the front lines,” said LaKae Ford. “You hear from those individuals first and foremost.”

Officers from the LaGrange Police Department and the Troup County Sheriff’s Office stood watch over the ceremony, while leaders from different faiths explained on screen how faith organizations should respond to members facing domestic violence.

“A lot of times [when we say] first responders, we think of police officers, but I think that first responder might be that person from church or at the synagogue or at the temple with them,” Bedingfield said. “This is the first time that we’ve ever done a video at a candlelight vigil, and it had a great message. It had the message that forgiveness is important, and forgiveness is what God wants us to do, but forgiveness doesn’t mean that we have to stay there and be mistreated over and over again. There are resources available, and just being aware of what those resources are can be a first step.”

Anyone hoping to learn what their church or other faith-based group can do to help those threatened by domestic violence will have an opportunity to do just that at an upcoming event hosted by the Troup County Domestic Violence Task Force.

“Our next lunch and learn for the domestic violence task force will be about how to help people in the faith community reach out,” said Heather Canizales, who spoke Wednesday.

The date of the lunch and learn is to be determined.

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